it's kind of inspiring knowing that couples can work that I know

What about chrestomancy and Frances ? I have to admit, I have no idea how they work, but they do.

And then there's cuthbertcross and Rob. Soon to be more locally based.

I think Kate and Dan come into that as well ;)

Was that written just so floralaetifica could read it ?! That might be considered stirring y'know... (although I agree with you ;-) ).